AnbasRubbish: Empathy issues


Good day everyone!!

Hope you’re doing good over there, remember to take care of your health! Your health is the foundation of anything else you would like to reach in life, becoming sick because of the seasons changing or feeling down because bad sleeping habits prevent your brain from dealing with the this and thats of life are really not favourable for any of us. Take care!

Today I would like to talk a little bit about empathy.

Over the years that I have been living, which haven’t been as many but I presume about the same, if not a little, more than the majority of my Youtaite/Utaite audience, I have realised that something I sometimes struggle with is empathy.

When you are using your computer as a means of communicating with your friends all over the world, when you are watching the news, when people tell you things that don’t necessarily interest you, etc… empathy can be a struggle.

I used to believe I lacked empathy, that something was fundamentally wrong with me when I watch the news and hear about something terrible, but don’t feel much for it because it all seems like some kind of far away television show. When I see people in a bad shape and don’t feel much for them. Was I lacking empathy? Was something wrong with my brain or heart?

I came to the conclusion that, that is not the case.
In fact, I believe I am actually quite an empathic person, but that I oftentimes struggle with dealing with that feeling. Why? Because it exhausts me. So, I consciously and also unconsciously started to block out things that could weigh on me.

Don’t get me wrong, I actually believe that this is a very important skill to have because otherwise everything would bring us down. The problem, however, was that I did not know how to deal with it when I pushed things away that did matter a lot and that it came to bite me in the behind. I am often called fastidious and that might really be true, especially when it comes to what I think I should feel and do. I have a certain image in my mind about myself and push myself to act accordingly. I feel cognitive dissonance when I can not help certain aspects in life, even though I think I should feel for them, which in turn exhausts me, so instead I decided to block them all out to preserve myself. Even things that really did matter and that I could change.

Feeling down is something no one likes, feeling down because someone else is feeling bad almost feels like you got infected by some contagious negative vibe. Tumblr and all those kind of places tell us to prioritise our own feelings over everyone else’s, because it presumes we only care about everyone else and never about ourselves and that this is the source of our stress and struggles. This is, however, strange advice because if we do so, won’t we become people that don’t care at all?

It’s all about me, me, me is not the kind of person I want to be.

The key is to balance this feeling out. Prioritise and open up. It’s easier said than done, but that is something I am also still learning to do because I believe there is value in doing so for the people around me which in turn will create value for myself.

When you feel for your friends misfortune it’s easy to fall together with them in a loop of sadness and/or anger. The idea is to learn to accept that this will happen and then deal with it. “Deal with it” is not some buzz-sentence that means “do something, I don’t know what, just get it done.” By “deal with it” I mean that you are actively searching for a way to help by accepting the truth of the situation and then processing it to flip it around again.

When we look at paintings from a distance they look magnificent and amazing, it is when we start to look up close and dissect everything to how it “should be” that we lose the capability to enjoy it for what it is. This is the same for when we look at ourselves and what happens around us.

I know every psychologist and consultant/friend you have will say so and that it is all easier said than done, but that does not mean you should give up on it and declare it a mission impossible. Processing is what we fail to do because it requires us to think about a problem which might stress us out if we believe it is hard/impossible to solve and then we shove it aside “we can’t help it.” Instead, we should focus on breaking the problem apart into manageable pieces, to look at it from different angles and to ask ourselves questions about what we can do. We should also believe that we can. My post about motivation has this as an essential step. It is important to believe we can do something. It is important to look at the problem, to break it apart so we won’t tackle a huge load and set ourselves up for failure and uncertainty.

Believe it or not, my dog’s puppy classes taught me that one. Don’t ask your dog to do a backflip from the get-go. Don’t put it in a stressful environment and get mad when simple commands like “sit” do not seem to work. Train in a calm environment and slowly build external noise up so your pup gets used to it and you will be surprised with all the things he is capable of!!

What I felt compelled to share with you today is to not push everything and everyone to a corner in your mind, because those things will only add to your stress. Open up, let it in, try to process it as far as you can and look for ways to deal with them.

I cannot end the world hunger, but I can do things like, buy consciously when I go into the food aisle. Even if this sounds like you’re just trying to “make yourself feel like a better person” then what gives? That is also part of empathy. It’s alright to “make yourself feel like a better person” because when you take steps to help someone, you are in fact trying to be a better person which brings satisfaction because we are social creatures that function that way. That’s not wrong, it’s actually super-good! It means you acknowledge you did something for someone, that is being empathic. That’s why it’s such a great thing to help each other out. It’s full of mutual benefits and a way of sharing experiences and feeling like part of a system/group you belong in.

Moderation is the key for everything.

Now, my example of world hunger is maybe a far stretch. It is not something you can change in a day, but your friend feeling stressed, your mother feeling irritated, etc… are things you can definitely deal with by talking things over and actively looking for a solution.

It is okay to block out certain things, you cannot shoulder the world. But I sincerely believe that if we all open up just a little to the things we know are important to us, that we will be able to create a better environment for ourselves as well. We can not shoulder the world alone, but if we all stand around the edges, count to three and lift it together, we might be able to manage in carrying it to a place we want it to be in. This is why I believe that politicians like Trump do not fit in this kind of society where tolerance and empathy are essential to change anything at all.

Remember that super-cool anime that was basically talking about the concept of “karma?” Yeah, full metal Alchemist, that one. It taught me about the concept of “equivalent exchange”. I sincerely believe that this concept is applicable to life in general.

When you reject an entire group of people, like Trump suggested with his Mexican wall, they will also reject you. How does that benefit either of you? Not to go into politics, but it just happens to fall in this topic. Think about it if you don’t agree already haha.

There is no way to measure how much you help someone with small actions. It’s not like a set currency. Even if not everyone will respond in the way you expect, you can still walk away with the feeling you did something right, something small that can at least affect your direct environment and the people that matter in your life. Expectations is something we can’t help to have, that’s alright. I believe being a “good person” also means that when you do something for someone and they fail to respond in the way you imagined, that you are able to let go of the disappointment you feel and recognise you did something good for someone because you want to be good to them.

I’m empathic, a little too much. Things that seem far away get me down, words hurt me and other people’s woes and the state of the world does too. But what good is there in blocking it all out and become a boring adult? I want to stay curious, I want to see the magic in everything and everyone and I will do my best to achieve that as well as I can. It might be idealistic, difficult and not always possible. Call me naive if you will, but having faith in something bigger, call it God or just the good of people, is what moves people forward in the harshest moments. My goal is to be a certain type of person, someone who is good to others. So even if it is hard, I get frustrated and I can’t always act the way I wish to, I will do my best and keep it in mind.

How about you?

How have you helped someone you didn’t necessarily know or didn’t know you would get any special gain from recently? From putting a spider outside instead of killing it to standing up for an old lady on public transport. There are tons of small things we do because we feel it is right and because we feel a certain form of empathy for another living being and/or situation.

It’s alright to boast!

You can certainly be proud of yourself. Being humble is something I value in people, but if you know you did well bragging in a positive manner is completely okay! (don’t forget the moderation part though haha.)

Please do share that good feeling!! When you share you can inspire!
I would love to hear from you!!



AnbasRubbish: Motivation

What’s up my favourite internet-dwelling whippersnappers?
How’s the Potassium-life going for you? How’s it hanging?
Today I would like to venture into the topic of „motivation.”
Now you might ask „what brought this on? Why are we suddenly talking about motivation when all I care about is doing the singing stuff on the inter webs? I don’t need extra motivation for that lol.”
Well, dear SakuraKoKitsuneHimesan55x3SasukeRulezYolo you are indeed correct to say that we are here to have fun and to enjoy ourselves and that it usually doesn’t take a lot of effort. But, what you might not know is that even doing what you love can, overtime, become stressful and difficult to manage on top of all these other things you should be doing.

As a singing-person pioneer-veteran… your amigo?-thing I can safely say that this is something most of us go through as our interests dwindle and/or our perception of our own skills becomes stricter. This is not only applicable to singing though. In fact, what I’m going to talk about is actually stuff I found out about because I wanted to become a better student. It helped me enjoy being a student and working harder for it . This in turn has spread into my attitude towards the rest of my merry little banana life and managed to make me more motivated and self-confident about my worth and the value I can provide for other people.
In this post, I would like to try to impart these pieces of wisdom I had to learn the hard way over years to you, for free, by talking about what motivates me and how we might be able to get some of your motivation back.

Q1: Firstly, I would like to ask of you though, do you really want to try this?

The first question, for any life/vision changing step you’re undertaking in life, is if you really want to do this. Motivation might not seem like such a huge deal cause „I’m occasionally motivated” is what most people say, but if you really want to get yourself out of the dumps it’s important to be VERY honest to yourself and take the blame when it’s due, but not in a manner that paralyses you. Take the blame and be open to reassemble all of that knowledge into a motivator and teacher for your next step. Step out of that comfortable zone where you can sit in front of your laptop for hours even though you don’t feel very happy about it, and thread upon a new land which might have even better and cooler opportunities there for you that will make you into the kind of person you really want to be!

Q2: Let’s bite off the tip with the question: What is Motivation exactly?
How would we define it in one paragraph or so?

According to Merriam-Webster, a dictionary site, motivation means the following:
  • the act or process of giving someone a reason for doing something : the act or process of motivating someone
  • the condition of being eager to act or work : the condition of being motivated
  • a force or influence that causes someone to do something
According to Wikipedia, Motivation means the following:
Motivation is a theoretical construct used to explain behavior. It gives the reasons for people’s actions, desires, and needs. Motivation can also be defined as one’s direction to behavior, or what causes a person to want to repeat a behavior and vice versa.[1]

  • As we can read, Motivation is closely related to a „reason” for a certain action/way of thinking.
  • It’s a state of being rather than a particular action you do and get over with „I AM motivated.”
Motivation is very much related to our goals and how much we feel they are realistic and how much we want to reach them. When you are motivated it’s easier to keep working on things you might not enjoy very much for the sake of the bigger picture. It picks you up when you’re feeling dispirited and is a contagious spark you can pass on to anyone else that has opened their mind to the possibility of doing better and having fun as they roll with it!

I’d also like to shove the notion off the table that we can’t have fun as we work hard. At the same time I would also like to emphasise that everything „fun” has a sh*t side to it.
  • Singing is fun, getting stupid comments on your hard work is not.
  • Doing art is fun, art theft and people thinking you’re a donkey that poops art and treating you as such suck.

Q3: The key here, is to be honest and ask ourselves „how much do we want this goal, this reward, that is connected to all this labour we’re putting into it.”

I would personally say that, for example, that getting a degree is really worth the few years of struggling it takes. But, that might not be the case for every person on this planet. If you feel it is really not and you have a different plan, then go for it.
Some of the most successful people don’t have a degree, they got somewhere on pure motivation and drive to reach their goals no matter what unconventional path they had to take.
Just remember here that every road to success requires you to extort as much effort, mentally, as would nights and nights of cramming and report writing. There is no shortcut, even so called „talented” people did not get where they got merely as a birth right. They worked hard, persevered, were motivated, took risks, etc… And that’s just how it works. Saying “I simply wasn’t born with it.” is therefore never a real excuse!
The only difference between you and them would be your amount of motivation that would catalyse behaviour that brings you closer to your goals, which could become your key to success in whatever field you venture in.
Take Art for example: you can talk to any freelance artist on the internet that is trying to pay off their bills through their art and they would tell you how hard it is. It’s hard, it makes you want to quit so many times, but they are not quitting. Why are they not quitting? Speak to the people that aren’t quitting. Surround yourself with the artists that work regularly and keep trying to improve. Where do they find their motivation? What drives them? Search until you find the one person that seems to have some sort of succes formula and learn from them.

Q4: What do you REALLY want to do? What steps do I need to take to reach my goal?

Be idealistic and realistic, the both of them seem to cancel each other out, but if you find the way in between anything is possible. Think of your dreams as business ventures rather than „impossible” or „most likely.” What kind of steps would you need to take to get to your dream? There are people that have become modern day pirates. How did they do that? It doesn’t matter what age you are at, think about it. How can I be part of this world?
Talk to people that are on this journey or that have reached the place you would like to be at. It’s okay to give phone calls to companies or just walk in and ask for a conversation.

 Now for Youtube specifically I would like to advice you to: 

  • Be pro-active and thorough. Go out of your way to look up different singers that align with your taste of music or vision for your channel.
  • Follow them on their social media accounts, look what type of people they are. Do their visions correspond to yours? Would you make a good team? Why do you think so?
  • Do not only contact them to get attention for yourself and your channel.
    Firstly, it would be respectful to create value for them: Share their music if you like it, talk about their stuff with them, see where they stand and THEN ask if they would like to join you for something you think would appeal to them, etc…
It seems like a roundabout way, but I figure that this is the most respectful way you can go about it. All it takes is sincerity and honesty to yourself.

Q5: Why do I contact people? What do I want for myself and my channel?

Do I want:
If you choose the first then that is your vision and choice of course, but I personally believe it would decrease the value of your channel and what you do in the long run. This depends entirely, of course, on what you are offering on your channel. Some types would benefit from this, some won’t.
Now for the second choice, it will take some effort but it will pay off in the long run.
I would say, shoot until you hit that sweet spot that will land you in that place you want to be at whilst still having room to breath and enjoy yourself!!

  • Don’t be afraid to decline opportunities that are not aligned with the vision you have for yourself. Don’t worry not being in every CB/Collab/Whatever even if the other side seems like this great social media presence. If they do not align with the vision you have with your channel why bother? It would probably not benefit either of you if you end up in a project you can’t be proud of, especially if is longterm.
  • Don’t make „connections” out of the blue, create value for the person you’re connecting to and they will generate value for you.

I won’t say I’m an expert on the topic, because obviously I am not… Let’s say I’m an eternal student and someone who has a past littered with all the things you shouldn’t be doing to be a productive part of this society. These experiences, however, have lead me to change and to deeply think about the topic. Even more so than most people, who are averagely getting their stuff done, would. Simply, because everything I value is somehow also connected to being productive and motivated for what I believe in.
I’ve read books like „Outliers” and „The Power of Habit” on top of regularly listening to podcasts and reading blogs like CollegeInfoGeek’s, WtfProfessor, etc… to start developing my own methods and thinking patterns to motivate myself. This post is a very small part of a huge thing I still have, mostly, in my head and I would love to get into this subject more detailed once I got it all figured out properly. For now, a quick overview and starter for a pretty long theory that took me way longer to develop.
Thank you for your attention!

(Dutch/Flemish) Gedachten over zaken…

Rap hoort mensen aan te spreken in een taal en met woorden die wij zelf ook zouden gebruiken, het is gelijk een gesprek en hoewel het Engels ook cool en interessant is, zal het nooit kunnen uitdrukken wat voor ons echt van belang is in een taal die wij ook aanvoelen als dat van ons. Hoe vloeiend ge ook vaak denkt te zijn in een andere taal, er zijn altijd aspecten die ge niet persoonlijk hebt ervaren in die taal maar die ge gewoon overbrengt vanuit uw eigen taal naar de andere. Hoe kan het ook anders, als uw moedertaal jaren voorsprong heeft op uw andere aangeleerde taal.

Op café, op familiefeesten, gelegenheden, op het werk, op school, bij stress, nonchalance, leed, plezier, etc… alles hebt ge altijd gedeeld met elkaar met uw moedertaal als brug naar elkaars gedachtes en gevoelens . Die brug is zo sterk en die interacties zitten er zo diep in gebakken dat als er iemand langskomt en die snaren woord per woord weet aan te raken ge wegwandelt met een ervaring die binnen en buiten uzelf ligt. Voor mij althans, is dat het ware doel van muziek. Dan hebt ge die miljoenen dollars, 3D projectie en indrukwekkende kleerkast niet nodig om een overtuigend stuk te schrijven.

Ik heb dan ook dik respect voor gasten gelijk Tourist Lemc. Dat is durven, u zo blootleggen en dan ook op zo een briljante manier. Hoe dat die weet om te springen met ons taaltje…

Ik heb het altijd gezegd, muziek maken in het Vlaams is niet gemakkelijk. Het Nederlands op zich is al niet bepaalt een muziekale taal met al die medeklinkers en keelgeluiden, vooral niet als ge het gaat vergelijken met het Italiaans ofzo. En daar is Tourist Lemc opeens, die een plaats vind in de muziekwereld voor het Vlaams. Die een stijl heeft ontwikkeld en dieper gaat door zijn dialect te gebruiken in plaats van trachten de grote hoop zoet te houden.

Dat is ook wat mij aantrekt aan zijn teksten, ze klinken nooit geforceerd. Het komt echt van hemzelf. Gewoon, een gesprek met een vriend op café, zo in een atmosfeer waar ge u helemaal op uw gemak voelt, misschien al wat bierkes op hebt, en een diep gesprek nodig hebt. Geen dikke praat over geweren en geld, iets wat niet bepaald in onze cultuur zit, geen macho-gedoe. In Nederlandse rap is dat nog gewoon overtuigend omdat ze daar al iets extravaganter zijn in de dagelijkse omgang. Echte Belgen moeten zich daar niet aan wagen. Vaak is het gewoon veel te onnatuurlijk en nogal aanstellerig. Wie probeert ge voor de gek te houden? Er is niks mis met het wat rustiger en het wat bescheidener aan te doen en over zaken praten die ons als Belg zijnde zorgen baart. Terrorisme, prijzen, het weer, liefde, vrienden, de mensheid, allochtonen, hoogmoed, uw stad, de helaasheid der dingen etc… maar nooit met groot geschud. Als klein apelandje is het ook niet aan ons om uit te pakken met geld en luxe. Wij pakken uit met rauwheid en een schuchtere vorm van eerlijkheid. Zelfs agressie drukken wij ietwat anders uit dan onze noorderburen en al helemaal anders dan onze overzeese compagnons, dus waarom proberen te zijn wie we niet zijn?

Mijn punt dus, relativeer de zaken wat, blijf wat cynisch met een snuifje sarcasme, melancholie en misschien een lichte terughoudendheid die onze noorderburen als “stijf” zouden omschrijven. Allez zeg, welkom in België, pak u een pintje, we bestellen ons een frit met frikandel ofzo want ach meneer, meer hoeft het toch niet te zijn?


Free talk: Trivial things I am troubled by

Hello!! It has been awhile, hasn’t it? I realised I haven’t been very nice to this blog in the least. If this blog were a pet it would have been very lonely and I feel kind of sorry for it… the thing is that everytime I sit in front of my keyboard to write something down I feel like I am saying things no one is waiting for. “These kind of things are more of a twitter-thing, aren’t they?” I end up feeling insecure and then delete my draft. This has happened several times already, until something inside of me started to yell that I should get a grip,

so here we are!!

The topic of today would be “trivial things I am troubled by.”

I think all of us experience these trivial things in life that end up troubling you somewhat. I’m sorry, I’m not being very clear about it, so I will just provide a concrete example:

Trivial trouble 1

When I am watching an anime I can suddenly feel the immense urge to watch one of my favourite Japanese stand up comedian pairs do some sketches or talks, so I pause the anime I am watching and watch one of their shows. Whilst I am watching a show, however, I suddenly feel really curious about the developments in the anime episode I abandoned… in fact, it could be said that the continuation of the story is on my mind the entire time but my urge to watch a comedy video overtakes that curiosity for the time being, so I endure my curiosity for the sake of my urges. This gets on my nerves after awhile so I naturally go back to the anime episode I was watching which then gets interupted by another comedy-urge.

As you can guess, this goes on and off with in between some Nico douga-live streams of my favourite live-streamers and maybe some recordings of radio-shows with Minagawa Junko in them. Recently she is in this show called “Super Lovers” so she is back to having a regular radio show hosted with her co-actors in the series…anyways…

what I am trying to say is that, this is something that is honestly troubling me quite a bit. I feel I might be someone that is very true to their desires…but I am also very insecure about choosing what to spend my time on, so it is hard for me to focus on one thing. It always feels like I am wasting time and am scared I will regret it, so I go back and forth a lot.

Does anyone else experience the same troubles? Does anyone have any advice for how they overcome these kind of trivial troubles?

Definitely leave a comment to tell me what you think and maybe some advice!

Thank you and see you later!


Buon Compleanno Lovino e Feliciano!!

A few minutes before the end of their birthday in Europe, I rushed and made this post to celebrate their birthday!! A photoshoot with the progress of Boss and Henchman’s room!! I don’t know if I already screamed here about obtaining Spain by the way? Well then… hereby you know… I also made another unboxing video, so look forward to that?

My Hetalia twitter was such a blast!! The amount of Romano and Veneciano theme’d art I have seen!! I made a lot of new friends as well. Incidentally, I have noticed a lot of accounts that are really into the Hetalia character “Belgium” started following me. It was a little weird at first but they are all super-sweet people that just really adore Belgium and I could not feel happier!!

Now in this picture you might have noticed it all looking a little empty. I’m slowly and gradully working on making it fuller and more of a room to live in for the both of them! I painted the Italian flag-poster in the back myself (A true Picasso). The room probably needs a Spanish flag later but that one is slightly more complicated so I will do that when I my brain is not sautéed… we’ll see what we can do..

It’s actually a lot of fun to busy myself with these kind of things in between all the schoolwork I have been facing recently. Just doing something with your hands and marvelling at how cute the characters are. Somehow, I feel that the trash-life is a great way for escapism. Only that I am too old to sink into the “nyan x3” depths so I do not really escape as much as use it as a sanctuary to not think about what I need to do all the time… which is… not escapism? Just blatant denial of reality for a few forgiving minutes until I use that strength to kick myself back in gear!

Anyways, here a message I wrote in my best Italian…

Il mio augurio parte dal profondo del cuore con sincerità, per arrivare a te felicità ed augurarti buon compleanno Lovino e Feliciano! 💕🇮🇹

I’m sorry, I don not have a Feliciano figure, but uh… look in the left on the box. He’s somewhat present in spirit? (Gilbert too, for some awesome reason or the other.)

See you next post, grazie e ci vediamo, arrivederci!!

Ps: don’t you just love Romano’s eternal side-eyes at Spain? Also, Spain’s arm at the right angel gives the impression that he’s making a selfie 8′)!!


A once in a blue moon update:

Hello internet! It has been quite awhile, hasn’t it? I keep on saying this for each update here because it keeps holding true. Sorry for the wait!! So here we are, it is 2k16, isn’t it? We are already on the second month, how is this one fairing for you? I hope fun things have happened to you. And if not, hold your socks for the rest of the year cause it might all still be coming for you!  If you’re wondering about the banana-front, we’re slowly ready to release a nice collaboration this month. I think my twitter followers, especially, will appreciate this one. The upcoming collaboration has quite some people you might have heard of before?! ;’) WINKWONKERSWANKWONK and for people that don’t follow me on twitter, you will get the chance to meet some awesome people!! Isn’t that a coold deal? I’d say YES. No is not an option, I’m afraid. As for a solo, it is all still in the make. I’m honestly a little stumped, call it a block? I keep on questioning and second guessing myself. Trying, scrapping, trying again, feeling bummed out. I receive so much love and support, I just can’t seem to come up nor make anything to make up for all of that. You’re literally too awesome for me (apparently that’s a thing this year?!). I’ll get there though, I always do!! Inspiration just needs to hit me like BAM. If anyone is interesting in helping me out on the music, art or mixing front, you’re always welcome to contact me with some samples of yours by e-mail (Anba_Len@hotmail.com)!!

Cool? Cool!

Now onto less youtube channel related news, I have recently bought a few fun steam games of which “Don’t starve” the package deal includes a multiplayer version “Don’t starve together” which I am kind of hooked on as of recent. It’s a  charming little indie-game with a Tim Burton-esque atmosphere to it. You know, that particular mash of adorable and morbid? Yes, that. It’s kind of awesome! If you’re interested in playing it with me, definitely add me on Steam!! Just ask me for my ID on twitter @Anba_LenU2B or facebook or something, I know it’s a roundabout way to add me but I’d like to know who adds me before I accept ;’).

Games aren’t the only thing I have been going on about though… I have a terrible confession to make to everyone… see, I have fallen back into that swamp called “Hetalia.” Yeah… I used to be a fan before but kept it mellow; the hardcore fans kind of creeped me out to be honest, so I enjoyed it from afar. Since the coast has become clear, I have gone back to it and I must say… I’m sinking deep… At this point I’m doing a backstroke in the swamp, enjoying myself like the piece of trash I am haha. If anyone else likes Hetalia, and then the Tomato-family in particular, hit me up because they are my weakness!! I need more Tomato-friends. It’s almost ironic that I can not eat raw tomatoes, at least I can eat them processed. Another bowl of tomato soup with bananas please!  (believe me it’s a delicacy) ❤ You’re also more than free to hit me up if you’re into Karamatsu, Ketsuekigatakun, the Rakugo anime or Boku dake ga inai machi! They are my weekly paintrip.

That was that then!! An update. I like how this has become a sort of “summary” of a lot of things you see me go on about on twitter. It’s nice to get that in one post though, right? Stay healthy, positive and busy! You’re amazing for keeping up with me like you do. See you around, hopefully very soon!! ❤


バナナ先生のgdgdな英語教室第一枠「Reacting in English」


Schermafbeelding 2015-08-26 om 18.06.12(This is a Pikachu I drew. It’s like a masterpiece, right?)


で は、放送で語ったことについてブログ記事も書くと約束しましたね。短時間で情報が沢山あったら全部を覚えるのがやはり無理ですから。生放送では英語の表現 などを紹介するだけだと思います。そして、ブログでは覚えやすくするために放送で語ったことをまた記します。そうやって、皆々様はいつでもここに来てレ ビュー出来ます。その上に、もっと詳しく知ってほしい方々のためうちは個人的に進める英語勉強サイトのリンクも残したいと思います。




バナナ先生のgdgdな英語教室第一枠「Reacting in English」





あまりにも長くて初めてアメリ カ人と英語で喋った時はもうよう覚えないけど。


“Oh I see”や”That’s right”だけじゃ会話に興味がなさそうな気がしてまいます。

Schermafbeelding 2015-08-24 om 16.12.07Let’s go!! (this is a horse by the way)



  1. 「Oh my God」という反応ですね。Oh My GodかOMGは、特にびっくりする時に使います。「えー?マジで?」や「嘘やろ?」って意味とほぼ一緒です。でも、びっくりする時だけではなくたまにはただ「ほら」聞いて」や言ってることを強調するためにも使います。「OMG, did you hear? Mrs. Suzuki is actually bald?!」
  2. びっくりする時にOMGやWTFも使います。WTFかWTHは英語の「なんでやねん」か「なんじゃそれ?!」です。相手がよく分からない行動しとる時には「wtf」っていうけど、相手がおもろいこと言うたらwtfも使います。
    「Hahaha wtf are you doing」
    「おまwww何しとるねん?w」たまには、名前+wtfを書きます。相手がもっと集中するために使います。A 「Tarou Wtf…」
    「太郎くん、おま...マジかよぉ...」Omgも追加したらさらにでかい反応になります。A「Omg did you hear? Mr. Suzuki is actually bald?!」」
    「なぁなぁ、聞いた?鈴木さんは実はハゲだって?!」A「Omg wtf, are you serious?」
  3. 次はGTFOです。GTFOは「出て行け」という意味です。Get the fuck outから来ました。
  4. 人がよく文章の後ろにつけるのはLmaoやLolやROFLなどみたいな言葉です。これは全部爆笑って意味です。日本人が使ってるの「www」と全く一緒です。人によってLOLかROFLを使いますが。うちは個人的にLmaoを使います。昔はLOLをよく使いましたが。あきて、最近はLmaoになりました。皆々様はお好きな言葉でどうぞ!
  5. そしてそして次は、IdekかIdk。これは「知らんけど」という意味になります。これはもちろんほんまによう分からん時にも使いますが。自分が言ってる意見などをもっと優しくするためにも使います。「I heard she is a real bitch but yeah idk….」
  6. そして最後には、Fight me。Fight meというのq、別に「喧嘩してくれ」って意味だけやなくて、「じゃー止めてみろよ」という意味もあります。例えば、誰かがずっと英語でおもろくない Puns(英語のダジャレ)を言ったら、うちは「お前もうやめろやー」というリプを送ったらその人はFight meで答えるかもしれません。「ほう?ならやめさせてみろよ」という意味です。Fite meというわざと正しくなくした英語の書き方もあります。マジで使う人がほとんどいませんが。ほんまにやめるべきことをやり続いたらやめたほうがさすがに いいですねw。半角的にイラっとしてる人にFight meで答えたらまずくなれますよ。まぁまぁ、そこはソーシャルスキルの問題ですねw。空気を読んでください!♡






ちゃ んとレベルうpしたかったら積極的に色々なサイトで分からない単語や表現を調べたりようつべや色々なオーディオが聞けるサイトで聞く練習もしたほうがいい だと思います。アンバはお笑いがめっさ好きやからお笑い動画で勉強したりしますw。皆々様も興味深いことを英語で調べたほうがいいかもしれません!!有名 人や映画や動物やスポーツやアニメ、なんでもいいですから。頑張ってくださいね!好きなことで勉強したらもう勉強だと思わなくなります!!★

… Anyways, I’m seriously tired…

以上です see you later!!